Hi there.

We’re told from the first day of kindergarten to our first day starting the dream job, just be yourself and everything will be fine. But what if that’s easier said, than done?

If you’ve ever walked into a room, wondering, ‘Okay, which me do they need me to be?’ You’re in the right place. If you’ve ever believed the only way to make friends is to be useful to them, I’m here for you. If you’ve ever thought setting boundaries would mean the death of your friendships and other relationships, this is the right place for you.

What I’ve just described is people-pleasing behavior. If you identify with one or more of those statements, you might be a people-pleaser, like so many others I know, including me! Before I dug deeper into the term, I had no idea what a ‘people-pleaser’ even was, and I was certain I wasn’t one of them.

My people-pleasing presented itself as fear. Fear of rejection. Fear of being left out and forgotten. Fear of abandonment.

If we leave these behaviors unacknowledged, free to reign over our thoughts and soul, it turns chronic and is much more difficult to uproot with God’s truth, which tells us we are worth so much more this.

I created a free resource just for you, to help you explore setting boundaries and improving ones you already have in place. I want to help you to set healthy boundaries to protect your soul and live in freedom. Get the guide below!